This is what I've been cleaning my hair with. I may play around with French Green Clay or Rhassoul clay in the future, but for now, I've got a bunch of little samples and I've been enjoying playing with them. I still have some leftover Aveda conditioner I'm using up (it was $$$!) but when that is gone I'll switch back to jojoba and apple cider vinegar. My man likes the soap bars too!
The descriptions on this website are great, and the way they help you figure out which soap would work best. My hair is very soft and shiny, and never feels stripped or heavy. I still only wash it every 4 days or so (5 when it's dry out) and I've been very pleased.
I make home made shaving cream for my guy, and when I order cocoa butter next I'll order some French Green and some Rhassoul and see if I like that as well. A friend from Boston has been using the French Green to great success!